Buddy you are spinning again.You are taking steps back! This post is all about her.
Originally Posted by Hurt213
She believes we are to be friends (down the line, maybe) but the way I was treated, the way she ruined the family, the betrayal. That will take me a long time to heal from and forgive.
Hurt this is on you. You went to the amusement park and gymnastics together giving her the impression that you were ok being friends. I think you were hoping doing fun family things would change her mind and when you figured out it won't you are now like I don't want to be friends anymore.
Originally Posted by Hurt213
I made use of my aforementioned intel source, so that I am not suddenly stuck with the house payments because she accepts an offer, and just leaves her old life behind. I am sure, that thought is valid given her actions in the period from start till now.
Talk to your lawyer and see what your options are if this happens.
Originally Posted by Hurt213
I hope she finds her happiness, and I fear that she will come running back if she does not, so I am pacing myself in a steady direction 180 degrees the opposite of hers, so I can withstand her, emotional, should she make a turn towards me.
I think your BSing yourself here Hurt. If not, why would you fear it? After all she has put you through you would love to have a chance to say "thanks but no thanks. I have moved on!
Come on man! Back on the horse and keep moving forward.
