She is in love with the guy. It is her soulmate. She then says that there are things that annoy her of him. Things that she does not like about him. SHe knows she wouldn't be happy with him either. She may be just happier alone.
They all say things like this. My W, who is a very religious woman (but wasn't so much during her WW period), would say things like: "I want to live alone." "I never want to get married again." "I am never going to have sex with anyone, just go out on dates, then come home and masturbate."
It was all BOLOGNA. It was her way of easing her own guilty conscience by letting me down easy. IN the meantime she was sending nude photos to her EA OM. She was trolling dating sites for guys 10-20 years younger than her. She wanted to move into her own apartment. (REMEMBER, women do not need their own place to work on their marriage or find themselves, they need their own place to sleep with other people."
So do not be tricked into believing her on this. People in the limerance phase of a new relationship rarely acknowledge or care about the other person's negatives. Think back to when you were dating her. All rainbows and unicorns. Then you got married and there were tons of things that bugged you to no end about her.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
