(get it? Bottom washer.....giving DD a bath...ok, so it wasn't that hot of a joke) Just trying to remind you that you do have an awful lot going on at home at night. I love it when H does the dishes and gives the kids a bath, but I don't see the benefit in taking the hard line approach of "he'd better do XYZ". He is smart enough to not take it with me, either, lol.
I hope she recognizes this for what it is, a boundary, and not that it is a game.
