Jac12, sorry man. I know it is hard, but try to have no expectations. In fact, when she first said she'd sleep over you could have shortcut it with "I don't think that's a good idea."

Also I'd seriously consider telling her your son needs to go home with her Friday night.

"He needs to learn what it will be like to have two homes. Plus I have to get up early to go to work. "

However, if you are even slightly doing this to manipulate her, then just let it go. Never use your son as a pawn in this game. I know you know that already but I just want you to be honest about your motivations.

Hang in there man. It will get better.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018