Her father passed around that time. It definitely triggered something also my company got shut down by the FTC and we moved to the islands for work. It has been an extremely rough few years on both of us. My kids seem ok my son broke down once which scares me. She hasn't walked away from the kids like i've read some of the others have. She has mentioned living on the islands part of the time. That also scares me but there hasn't been any mention of that for a while now. As hard as it is I am trying to do whatever it takes I definitely have my share of the blame in all of this. I am working on detaching. I am sure this guy was from before but i have no knowledge or evidence of that but that doesn't matter anyway. I have really moved on from him now I don't think about him as much anymore. He was the main target of my rage early on. My wife was always sweet and kind never had a mean bone in her body until now. She hasn't accepted any responsibility for the affair actually told me "well I asked for a divorce so you new"." I didn't do anything wrong it was how you reacted to it that was wrong ". But now I get nothing no spew, nothing.
