Also, she would usually ask me things like to get her medicine at the store or stop by the grocery to pick something up that is just for her. How can I say it nicely like, I can't or won't do that for her. If it is for the kids, I would but when I know it is for her, just curious how I would do it. Again, trying to figure out detachment but I don't want to push her further away but I know that appeasing her is not good either.
"That is something a husband would do for his wife. However, you've terminated me as your husband."
Or
"Not sure I can do that, I have plans that will not take me that way." (When she asks what plans, then use the line above, change to "that is a questions a husband would answer from his wife......."
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
