Also, she would usually ask me things like to get her medicine at the store or stop by the grocery to pick something up that is just for her. How can I say it nicely like, I can't or won't do that for her. If it is for the kids, I would but when I know it is for her, just curious how I would do it. Again, trying to figure out detachment but I don't want to push her further away but I know that appeasing her is not good either.
