So I usually cook dinner and such. How can I do this for the kids but not her. I just want to make sure I am not being cold towards her. I want to detach and such. But what if she is really having a MLC and not WW and I am too tough on her. They are similar based on Sandi's description but it appears to be WW but not sure. I don't want to do something that would back fire and then lose her for good. I have ordered both books but won't be here until Sunday. I have been reading everything but still confused on boundaries and such without placing ultimatums or such on them.
