It´s about where you stand, J9 & M, dear brothers. You need to find that possitiveness. And get free of selfgenerated fears. Leave the instability for us, the wws. You have no opposition in the parental field, there´s no need to feel challenged. Just take a step aside and look for yourselves. You are the lighthouses so please go there and show your bright light to everybody around.
You both are at the stage of showing: "This is me and I know where I stand." Because you are there, without any doubt.
