Roist,

Thank you. You touch on a lot of points so let me try to address them:

1. This week, the bedtime cuddling has become more intimate and sexual; we are both being cautious.

2. Yes, I need to remember: Actions > Words.

3. I vote for #3 too, the leap of faith and giving her more attention.

4. I listened to that podcast and it reminded me of the more thoughtful things I used to do for her in our early days.

5. She described a future where we travel the world together with worries or problems.

6. I said something along those lines in our last talk and think she actually heard me.


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving