Hairdog,
I told you a couple weeks ago that she is testing you; Pam and I are in total agreement here!
She tested you with the.....oh shucks what was it...coming back to bed for "cuddling"?

At any rate, this was another test. I think that, given the dynamic you have set up in your house, she both hates the sexual attention but also in a weird way, relies on it. It is "hairdog" to her. When you take that away, she is no longer sure of the rules around there and no longer as certain of your love.

I think you did the RIGHT thing by playing it cool and 'passing' the test. She is trying to bait you into being the old Hairdoggie. Hang in there and wait her out. I am anxious to see if she brings it up and what she has to say about your experiment.

By the way, for all you folks who don't live in MO, it is freakin cold here these days (very uncharacteristic for this time of year) and so I personally find it odd that she picked last night to feel hot. I think she's horny but her pride won't let her admit it!!!!!!! So she's trying to bait HD into starting something and then she can blame it on him and make him out to be a sex crazed bastard. Which he is.