So I am at a loss of what to do. How the sitch started yesterday. She came into my room and asked how my appointment went. I told her that I had a lot to process. I told her that I told my IC about what happen on Saturday and how she is still seeing the OM.
The IC had told me to set up boundaries which I told my W about. She then brought up her BFF and about that stuff. Then she started talking about other problems, like how did I know on the day before Saturday that there was a steak ordered (she supposedly went out with a GF). I was in her purse grabbing the check book and locking credit cards since she left with the guy. I was mad. She is so upset of me "snooping" and thinks it is worse than her leaving me in the middle of a date.
She then mentioned that I have so many trust issues and the stuff I put her through the last 1.5 years. Then she said thinking back, 4 years ago we started drifting away. She thought she would not find anyone better so just dealt with it. She said that there are things she don't like about the OM but she loves him. If she was financially able to, she would move out and then try to work on our marriage.
Are you guys saying I should threaten divorce? Cancel MC? I put up a strong front that I am not ok with her going to go see him and leaving. She says she does not plan on that. I told her that she did it Saturday so it could happen again. She got so pissed that she deleted me off of Facebook and unfriended me on SnapChat. Not sure what to do.
Her father wants me to go get a divorce consultation and put the receipt on the counter to scare her. I do not know if that is a wise choice. I am at a lost on what to do. She is just blaming me for every little thing that has or is happening. She also started drinking after our "discussion". She keeps saying that she wants to work it out for the sake of the children but believes I am too messed up to work it out. UGH!!!
