Hey Folks: Well, not in Seattle...it just sounded good. Anyway, W comes to bed last night w/o a shirt on. The last time she did this was on a cruise in December 2003, and I started touching her and she got all offended. Last night, however, I did not touch her, because, as you may know, I'm in my "no pressure for 6 months" phase. I did ask her why she was not wearing a shirt, and she responded, "why are you wearing a shirt?" Understand, it was not said as an invitation for me to take my shirt off. It was said with an edge of impatience to it, like, "none of your damn business." I rolled over and went to sleep. Well, honestly, I didn't sleep much. I kept hearing these voices in two-part harmony sing-saying, "Hairdog, oh Hairdog. We're W's boobs and we're free! No shirt between us and you. You could reach over and play with us...she's asleep and probably won't even wake up. We're soft and velvety to the touch! Tasty, too!" But I didn't listen to them. They are like the Sirens who tempted Odysseus. I knew if I listened to them I would 1) wake her up and get yelled at; or 2) not wake her up and feel guilty about it, because I remember what Aquarian went through with Glenn. So, I'd drift off, then wake up and listen to the song, then go back to sleep. By the time the alarm went off, my W had put on a shirt (kinda cold last night) and the voices were muffled.
I want to tell her to not do that again unless she wants me to touch her, but that sounds really controlling to me. Yet, I know that she knows how I feel about this, as we have argued about it in the past (most recently on that cruise).
