Gonna jot down the notes from MC tonight. Talked about last Friday's argument quite a bit and it seemed like we both learned quite a bit there, that was helpful. I went walking in the door thinking about being cool, thinking things through, and not speaking so freely.
At the end of MC, I brought up wearing our rings and what we're doing there. W says she doesn't feel like we are married, and went on to imply that she feels this way b/c things aren't good between us and that we shouldn't have gotten married. Looking back, I feel dumb for bringing it up. She doesn't have two feet in, why even bother mentioning this?
But just last week, she needed as husband to change a tire, she wants a husband to pay more than half of the bills so she can pay less...but she can't be a wife. I'm going to use that to fuel my detachment and GAL efforts.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
