I think I just set those boundaries today and she is pissed. I told her that I can’t reconcile with her and such if she continues to talk to the OM. She got upset and brought up what I did with her BFF. At this point I am just going to keep doing detachment and focus on me. Not sure what else to do. I told her if she goes and stays the night again it is over. She wanted to call him a friend. I said that ended when you let him sleep with you.
She hates her parents now singebininvolved them. I think she is WW not MLC based on what you wrote. She mentioned that if she was financially better off she would just live alone and try to work on our relationship. But she and I have trust issues to each other. Maybe that could be resolved in MC?
