Hit by the dreaded ILYBNILWY

[mikeyb]

So she asked me today, if I would watch her friends kids on Friday so they can go together to her get together. I told her I would think about it and get back to her.

And I don't know of any male co-workers in the area. She works on a pretty small team, mostly females. I don't really have any worries about the guy. She even said she could still sleep in the guest bedroom (we have 3 bedrooms, he would be in the 3rd with a air mattress) but she would feel more comfortable sleeping in my room versus across the hall from him.

I was talking with her friend tonight as she was over doing laundry and she was telling me that my W said she still wants to D but at the same time is confused because she is noticing how I'm becoming more independent and focused on the things I need to do, and things around the house. While still getting out and having fun. I told her, "only she can make up her mind. I know what I need to do and I'm doing it".

So I had bought myself a 1,000 piece puzzle yesterday and started working on it at the kitchen table (about half way done). I was out today with my Dog at the dog beach, and I had covered it with a towel so my cat didn't start slinging pieces everywhere and had the box on top of the towel. Apparently when her friend came over she was bragging about the puzzle, saying "He knows how much I love puzzles" (I do, but I also love to do them too) and she thought I got her the puzzle. When I came home the puzzle box was moved but the towel still there. She asked me what was up with the towel so I removed it. Long story short I think she might be mad at the fact that I bought myself a puzzle to do, oh well. It was to keep my mind occupied not hers.