Sorry to hear you all are going through this. Be strong DV. In time this will temper you, and it may be rough now but it will get better for you and the kids.
I agree with TF. Boys need good role models, men need good male friends. It never stops nor is it ever too early to begin.
I liked hearing about SD mom calling you and SD is team DV. Strengthen the bonds that you can. Shift that focus off your H and pour yourself into the children. They will not forget that. They are your legacy. You will be okay and you will make it. Hugs to you and the kids.
H 49 , W 47 T 23, M 17 S11, S5 BD: 7/18 IHS: 7/18 - 3/19 Physically Separated: 3/19-4/19 Piecing: 4/19 - Current