New thread- Newcomer pre-bomb drop

[ovrrnbw]

She's like my W in that they don't want to deal with the facts. Your W knows it's wrong, she is just so emotionally charged that she can't even think about it right now. I've tried dragging it out of my W, I'd recommend you don't. But if it comes, if she acts like you're being over the top about it, just gently remind her of the facts of the situation. The facts alone will make her cry and boohoo poor her, but don't add any extra IMO.