Neffer, I will be honest, I respect what you are doing a lot. But if you were my H, and you still had such strong feelings for X-OW, I would not be able to be with you. It has been hard enough as it is! I am surpised your W can handle that, or does she not know? Sorry to hijack! he hardest part for me in my sitch, is the betrayal of the OW, and even with him being over her, it is still hard!
Blu
I get what you are saying Blu. My feelings for X-OW are fantasy fueled, and thatīs all. Iīve been N/C with her so I know itīs my mind playing games that I donīt want to play. I know itīs hard for the other side and Iīm sorry. But I wont lie either. I was just trying to show DjV that WWs minds are sometimes really crushed.
