Yorkie, I too have a professional H who did things to jeopardize his license. On my counsel's advice I didn't expose it and ultimately he dropped his divorce. We are now back to limbo, but I'm fine with it. I think I'm in a similar place to where you are, but my H has been doing his stuff longer and is now reconnecting with one of the kids (the other wants no part of him). You sound very strong. It only kills us if we let it.
