Man, this board is just the best! Thanks for talking me off the ledge. I needed more perspective on this. When you're in it, it's so hard to step outside of it.
J - good questions and giving me a chance to reflect on emotionally why I felt disrespected. I believe it goes back to feeling that you are a valued person, and no one can give you that value but yourself. It has to come from within. So, I need to spend more time building that self-value up. My exW has been very much like yours - keeping to herself and not really done some bat$hit crazy stuff that we've seen on this board. So I guess I should be grateful at the very least.
D - love the zero expectations perspective. That was so needed for me to think of this potential meeting and how I should approach it. I think I have a good idea of how to go about these things now.
It's nice to see that even if you reach DB ninja levels, you still need more improvement. I am grateful to have gotten more perspective on this.
