Dawn just so you know, her telling J the patient hit on her is her playing a game/testing him.
Sounds good man though your con #1 would not go well with my personality lol.
I know what you mean about getting use to certain things. My date on Saturday is 5'10" I am use to 5'2"-5'5" not sure yet if it is a deal breaker for me. Hair color has absolutely no effect on me.