Hmmmm J - you bring up a valid point. Should I have not felt disrespected that we agreed on something and she didn't honor it - especially when it comes to the kids? Even if it wasn't her intent to disrespect me, but I feel that way. I am honestly curious because I want improve my emotional health.
AS - I believe she thinks that I should meet someone who might be a regular feature in the lives of our kids. I can understand that and I would probably give her the opportunity for an introduction as well if I was dating someone seriously. I think she also has a fantasy that we'll all get along and it was be some happy weird blended family situation. Her first message about this stated that I would probably like him and get along with him. I think his ex and her new partner hang out with him together.
I am not trying to blow things out of proportion, and I see that this is truly par for the course. What I am stuck at is her going against something we agreed upon, when she has had no issue bringing that up in the past.
