Shouldn't I be standing up for myself here? I am open to thoughts.
I don't really see how she has disrespected you, I mean above and beyond dating someone while still being married to you which is obviously disrespect but you can't control that. Do you mean because she introduced OM to the kids without informing you first? You can't control that either. She did tell you afterwards though, and she even agreed to let you meet OM which honestly blows my mind. I don't think many WAW's would be OK with that.
