I think so, LH, though my preference is still for her to move out. She seems to be looking at places, though I know it does take time to find something affordable where we live.

Today I asked her for her keys back to the car. I have a nice company car and don't want her using it to go see OM. She is borrowing one of her parents' cars now for work. No resistance.

She went to the phone store today to move her plan onto her own account as well. She texted me to ask me what I thought of this new plan she was looking at, but I didn't respond.

I think a big part of her eating cake is her parents staying with us. Her mum, retired, cooks most nights so there's always food. I've spent the past few nights eating out with friends or with my family.

I'll give it a few more days and report back on the sitch.