I agree with the others Continue to create your life heal yourself grieve the loss and keep moving forward
It usually takes the MLCER 2-7 years to go through the process and many will not recover
As far as Contact vs No contact if NC is working for you and you said was a life saver--continue with that the mlcer may also walk away totally or some of them will keep contact so you can choose to respond if he contacts you or not-
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