Hi

sorry you are here

I agree with the others
Continue to create your life
heal yourself grieve the loss and keep moving forward

It usually takes the MLCER 2-7 years to go through the process and many will not recover

As far as Contact vs No contact
if NC is working for you and you said was a life saver--continue with that
the mlcer may also walk away totally or some of them will keep contact
so you can choose to respond if he contacts you or not-


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow