Ok, so not sure how this is gonna all play out. But here's a situation coming up on Friday.

She's getting together with coworkers, one of them drives over an hour and will be staying at our house that night. He has stayed here before. She talked to me about it before saying it was ok.

Now from what she's told me, is everyone from work doesn't know anything, but she took the rings off. Yea, she can excuse it for work purposes. But how is she gonna excuse it on Friday going out. She has not asked me to come with her as of now (Typically when they get together, the H/W/BF/GF comes along), but she said she wants to stay in the MBR that night, and set up the air mattress in the 3rd bedroom for her coworker. Again, he's stayed here before and knows we have a guest bed.

So it appears she wants to put on the act that we are a happy couple and everything is just peachy...


M(32) W(30)
Together 12yrs
Married 2yrs
ILYBNILWY 11/23/18
EA Discovered 3/20/19

In House separation 11/26/18 - 11/29/18 & 1/10/19-3/20/19
W Moved out 3/20/19
M Moved out 5/31/19
W Filed for D 3/3/2020