Ugh... just went downstairs to try to see if I could find the marriage license. Nope. But I did find souvenirs from our honeymoon and a love letter my H wrote to me about how much he loves me...”so much that it takes my breath away” and how he will always be a strong shoulder to cry on and he is not the type of guy to run at the first sign of trouble. It just went on and on... it was a beautiful letter. And then I found the words of our wedding song written out. Seriously!?!? I was having a decent day!!!!!! Now I want to punch him for being such a HUGE liar and making me believe in him.
DV, very sorry you are hurting. I doubt he was lying though, he really did mean it. The problem is aliens from the planet Crouton 7 secretly snuck in while you were sleeping, stopped time and took your H to their ship. While there they zapped him with a "Personality Removal Ray" until he was an empty shell, then slipped a new alien personality into his old body. Then they put him back in your bed and started time again. So you look at him and see your old H, but inside is a weird alien creature that doesn't behave like your old H. So when you find this old stuff then be nostalgic over the H you once had. But don't try and identify it with the alien version of him.
