Once I get out there I’m just gonna go dark/dim. I don’t know if that’s a good idea or not
Definitely a good idea, both to help you recover emotionally and to give your H time and space.
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I’m considering just leaving him a goodbye letter when I go.
Write the letter if it'll help you get things off your chest, but don't leave it for him. Burn it when you are done. Or delete it. Or post it here if you want. Letters/ emails help us to get our thoughts down and vent some feelings, but they have zero impact on a WAS.
