Well So begins the three week countdown to moving out. My brother is going to be ok the east coast so he told me he would help me with my move. My H knows I’m leaving, just doesn’t know the exact date and doesn’t outwardly appear concerned about it. Once I get out there I’m just gonna go dark/dim. I don’t know if that’s a good idea or not but I dont see how I can start to move on if I dont. I’m considering just leaving him a goodbye letter when I go.
This will probably be the catalyst that ends it for good between us, but I don’t feel like it’s really going anywhere with me sticking around.
We’ve had dinner together at home the past couple nights. It was alright I guess interaction wise. He turns on the TV while we eat to avoid having to have a real conversation but at least he’s around and talking a little.
I hate knowing that our issues are so solvable (no abuse, no drugs, no affairs to my knowledge) but he just refuses to turn around and solve them. Or even look at them.
we think they are solvable but the problem is they dont, or maybe they do really know they just dont want to ?
