Make no assumptions about H and ow

I found the more I guessed about what w was doing

The more wrong I was

Assume nothing

Process facts as they present themselves

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving