R,

Look man I get it you are done. I’m actually in agreement with you that I don’t see her. turning things around. I really just question how you going about communicating this to her.

To me it’s simple “if you’re not interested in moving towards an intimate husband and wife relationship on moving on” Then file for divorce.

Why move her stuff out, she’s not wayward?

You guys seem to get along pretty well be amicable for the children and move on.