So, quick update. Not much has happened other than I have had a couple of consults with L's to understand this process and my rights (and to get an idea for child support and alimony cost I am going to have to provide .. which is a LOT of money I was not expecting since we are 50/50 custody agreement....). I make almost 3x than she does so I guess that is why one attorney said....


But, she sent me this link. http://divorceyourselfny.com
Is she really serious? What should I respond? First mediator route and now this divorceyourself $300 kit or whatever it is?

Part of me wants to respond "are you serious?" but the other part of me wants to just go forward with it and possibly not have to pay all this child support/alimony. Seems like she is really clueless about this process and really *really* just wants it done fast. And she believes divorcing is so simple you can do it with a $300 kit.....



Any thoughts?

Last edited by svdad; 02/20/19 12:38 AM.