I guess it's so confusing and hard because the old W I knew would never in a million years do something like this. But as Sandi said in her posts, she became a completely different person when she was in the fog.
I still don't think I'm in the right headspace yet to decide what I want to do. I haven't seen her in person since Saturday when she moved into the spare room.
I know it's not going to do any good contacting this other man, because I know who he is, but man, it's really hard some days. I have to remind myself that he is not the cause and just a symptom. But still, what a vulture going after vulnerable married women.