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I guess my first question is why would you send a text as opposed to an in person conversation? My next question is what were you trying to accomplish with that message?

Read back. W said she never wanted to have the conversation again. NC
When I text she reads and doesn't just defend and dismiss. I also don't feel the need to defend.
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Just out of curiosity why do you think she is up to no good?

Past experience. Suspicious details about her trip. BTW, never said "no good".
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Ok. So you told her you need her to leave and she said no. Now what?

Good question and I guess it depends on her response. See, that's the nice thing about me. I will do whatever I want. I might leave. I might remove her stuff while she is on her trip. Who knows, she might wake up. All I do know is what I done for a year hasn't worked.
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How is she mistreating you other than she doesn't want to have sex with you? I know you keep saying it's not about sex. What else is she doing that is so wrong?

What do all WW do? W said she "was never going back". That pretty much says it right there. I'm not interested in remaining in the Friend Zone.
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So you start out by telling her she doesn't want to have a conversation and she says she will have another conversation and then you say there is nothing to talk about.

Yep, it has reached that point. I am tired of demonstrating that I am AMOAFWL. We are approaching a year of DBing
Judge all you want but until you walk a mile in my shoes..
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Not a very good idea to send that message was it?

At some point, any man with half a self esteem has had enough.
It's time had come. No regrets here.


M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.