Lol...well I mean outside of getting mid-evil on him. In reality you have no control over the situation and you have to trust your xw that she would not bring some [censored] bag into your kids life. If [censored] goes south then obviously step in and do what you need to do I just didnt want to make it a cock fight and both of us flop it on the table and see who's is bigger.
I'm glad I havent met the dude. He needs to wonder about me and soak it all in. Must not be that bad of a guy with 50/50, and still sending his xw money every month. Let him chew on that [censored].