Yeah I think it's the same - so they could spend more time together. I have no idea how it's going to unfold over time. Thanks for the tip on not being taken out on the kids. I'll be mindful. I'm not trying to put the fear of god in him or anything. It's a meet and greet and I am just going to let him know my expectations.
Still have a pit in my stomach about this. Feeling this $ucks. I'll have to sit with it and ride it out. This was to come at some point of course.
