L,

I am sorry you are going through a rough patch right now. Unfortunately, if your husband is in MLC you have a long, long road ahead of you.

I think after he acted the weekend you left and Valentines Day you started to build expectations that he was coming out of it.

Some people stand for their marriage for years waiting for the WS to turn around. Some can't bare the pain anymore and move on.

Take the time he is away and dig down deep and decide what best for Living.

Take care.