Anthony, that post is still too centered on her. What I am trying to tell you is to OWN your stuff, and leave HER stuff to her. She will either get on board or she won't. But your three kids need the stability of one sane parent. Be that. They need an unmovable rock, be that. Shield them from their mom's insanity as much as possible, but be the one that is there, prioritizing them, making them feel loved and cared for.

We had a poster whose wife was very similar to yours. He hasn't posted in a while. I will try to find he threads, but he is someone you should look to for inspiration and for someone to emulate. He was his kids rock. He ended up D'd despite not being what he wanted, but he saved himself and his kids from his W's insanity.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018