I think mine prob introduced too early as well but did it so they could spend more time together. Our mutual family friend told me that my girls dont pay much attention to him when he is around and that he doesnt really interact that much with them. She also said he seems pretty strict and is in my xw ear telling her how to discipline, etc. Her issue to deal with as my only concern is that my girls are happy and they seem to very much be. They have never once brought up the xw bf to me in conversation and my 9 yr old is old enough to Express herself.
Just remember whatever you do or say you dont want it to be reflected or taken out on your kids.
