Why are you in NC? That's going to come off as you pouting because she wouldn't have sex with you.
No notes have a face to face conversation. Tell her how you feel. Tell her you have made some mistakes in the past and that you would like to start over with her. Tell her in "your words" that you find her to irresistible be in a platonic relationship with her.
If she tells you she is not willing to work towards that goal then you have no choice but to move on.
The NC is mutual. A cooling off period.
Once again, it isn't about sex. Never was. We have already had the above-mentioned conversation. I told her in my own words.
It is time to move on.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.