Why are you in NC? That's going to come off as you pouting because she wouldn't have sex with you.
No notes have a face to face conversation. Tell her how you feel. Tell her you have made some mistakes in the past and that you would like to start over with her. Tell her in "your words" that you find her to irresistible be in a platonic relationship with her.
If she tells you she is not willing to work towards that goal then you have no choice but to move on.
As I stated before I see you have two choices 1. accept that it is highly likely the dynamic in your relationship will change 2. State what you need and be willing to walk away if you don't get it
