W messaged me to try to convince me once again that there was nothing there and that they are just good friends.
This is all script. They are more then just friends.
Originally Posted by Kwandoku
There were a few back and forths with me basically saying that I didn't want to talk unless she was going to stop lying to me and disrespecting me.
I would just ignore the texts.
Originally Posted by Kwandoku
She kind of apologised about the tickets and not telling me because she "didn't think it would help" but remains adamant that they are simply on the same flight and not staying together. Weak excuse.
All BS.
Originally Posted by Kwandoku
No real remorse sensed in any of her messages - just all defences - "I would never cheat" "we're just good friends" "I started feeling this way before I even met him" etc etc.
All script. The only thing she is remorseful about is she got caught.
Originally Posted by Kwandoku
Would she so readily throw away a 14 year old relationship for a platonic friendship?
NO!
Originally Posted by Kwandoku
Is she actually so naive to think that this guy had any other intentions going on this trip with her? And that she was inviting him along as a friend?
No she knows why she invited him along.
Originally Posted by Kwandoku
In my mind even if she hadn't done anything with the OM yet it was only going to be a matter of time. Better to find out now than afterwards.
K, I hate to break it to you but a trip together is not likely going to be their first time together. You don't take someone on a trip on the first date. It's a progression.
Originally Posted by Kwandoku
Still, I can't help but feel a little doubt. It is SO out of character for the woman I married, but then I have to remind myself that she is no longer that woman.
It's normal to have doubt. The signs are very clear. I am sorry.
