Trying hard not confront or to write my W a note telling her how I feel right now.

Remember she's not a "Trier". Now granted she wants results, she just doesn't want to try.

She has shown that she is capable of justifying any action, no matter who gets hurt. Bad things happen to her. Never because of her actions.

She wants to be trusted, yet she doesn't want to do the things necessary to regain trust.

I'm so ready to tell her that I want her to plan on getting out of here. "If you're not interested in trying then you just need to go."

M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.