so you told your husband that you can't do the roller coaster anymore, but how do you plan to make this real and show him that you mean what you say?
My sitch is difficult because we aren’t in a position to sell our house at the moment. It’s in the middle of renovations that will take some time. Plus we just bought it a year ago. Not an ideal sitch to be in.
H refuses to leave, says it doesn’t make financial sense and I can’t force him to leave.
So what I’m going to do in the meantime until we can move on in the way of a D is work my a@& off to finish these projects we have in this house.
I’m also going to work on finally dropping the rope. I’ll admit it’s hard and I haven’t been good at this DB stuff. I just wish I could stop holding out hope that he will come around. It [censored] to love someone so much who doesn’t want to be with you.
[quote] DB stuff isn't the easiest no matter what, it's your emotional attachment that suffers the most when you are still living together.
That’s true but for now we live together. So I guess I need to try to put as much space between us as I can. I’ve already started this.
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The way you get over a spouse you love is to move on. To not see or talk to them. Hard to do when you aren't ready to be done.
Yep this is very hard but even harder when you still live with them.
Last edited by Living; 02/19/1908:47 AM.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
