OH...and Neffer... good for you for making the right choice and choosing to love your W and your S. I am sure it was really, really difficult to face everything. I would not be surprised to find out that your situation was a lot like my H’s. He seems very protective of his “roommate” and her kids, especially her son. Unfortunately he still thinks that love is a feeling and not a choice. It may be that in the beginning but once the hormones have settled (studies shows it lasts two years max if you live together), it becomes a choice and takes effort to maintain. Your W and S are very lucky you figured that out in time to save your MR. You are very lucky as well. Having someone to share the trials and tribulations that life inevitably produces is a gift. (((HUGS)))
