Lost

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So today my W asks me if I would be ok moving into her condo if things work out between us, until we figure out where we will buy a house. She apparently doesn't like the house we currently own...

You'll cross that bridge when and if you get there, until then she is just temp checking you. Your response should be neutral, and ignore the moving in together idea. "I bet your condo is nice".

If you do the family hang out, make it at neutral ground, not the old home you shared.

If your W had plans to hang out with you after your son goes to bed she should tell you like an adult. I wouldn't mention your son going to her place either. There's no point in saying that right now.

Is she softening? Is her Condo single life not as glamorous as she hoped?

Doubt it. Hope for the best, prepare for the worst.

I feel like I need to stay pretty neutral and let her do the talking...don't put too much stock into what she says right now.

That's right, Jack!