Twofeet... IMO...you are definitely not ready to date. I think it is important to go through the grieving process fully before going down that road. It is tempting, for sure, because attention from someone else does help ease the pain of rejection by our WAS’s but I don’t think it is fair to the other person who is looking for a relationship. I think you will instinctively know when you are ready but until then, focusing on you and GAL should be a priority. (((HUGS)))