The double life is a crazy one. The day I caught W lying to me...earlier that day she was telling me she loved me. Up to that point I could tell things were off but we still had certain routines like we made time for us on Friday’s before picking up the kids if you know what I mean or on other days we kept it spontaneous. I knew we lacked intimacy and my approach was way off. I tried to pursue to get her to talk to me.
Your questions to neffer made me think of a video I saw where the speaker asked is the cheating spouse a bad person making a bad mistake or a good person making a bad mistake? One you might consider D, but the other you can probably save.
H 49 , W 47 T 23, M 17 S11, S5 BD: 7/18 IHS: 7/18 - 3/19 Physically Separated: 3/19-4/19 Piecing: 4/19 - Current