It wasn't meant to be cold or anything, she said she didn't want to do valentines day even though we had discussed plans a while ago, so I wasn't going to take the day off and just sit around the house feeling miserable. Instead I chose to work and keep my pto for a later day.
Ah, well yeah if the two of you had already discussed not doing anything then it sounds like there was no harm there.
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Normally I don't have a problem with my budget for the week, in fact it's typically the other way around were I'm giving her money for things.
Well the two of you are no longer a team, so it's time to start protecting yourself. Instead of "giving her money for things" you might start putting that away privately so you have access to it when you need it. Again the idea is to quit asking her for money or anything else, try and be more independent, and in turn, -look- more independent to her.
